The vagueness of the title may rub you the wrong way, but there is a tendency in all of us that is keeping us from achieving success or anything of value in this life.
Our ego feeds our inevitable doom. The more you are in control of that ego, the more power you will have over your destiny. Ego is a destructive force in all its forms and potencies.
This ego sometimes gets in the way of your communication with other people and the way you interact with them.
Let me tell you a quick story. A friend of mine once talked to me about their relative who had created this company and turned it into a profitable business.
He said that the line of work was the same as his major in university, which was mechanical engineering.
‘Well, why haven’t you contacted him and asked him for his help?’
I asked him eagerly, knowing that he had been struggling with finding a job.
‘I mean… I don’t know…’ He nodded and sank deep into his thoughts.
‘I mean, what if he rejects me?’
And at that moment, a thought occurred to me: People are wound up on so many ridiculous ideas that they hardly try or risk anything nowadays.
A lot of people do not ask for help or request somebody’s assistance because they fear rejection.
Some of them fear that the other person might look down on them or be generally disrespectful.
Well, for those people, I have a simple question: What do you lose by that?
What if they don’t reject you?
What if they are not disrespectful?
What if they welcome your idea and embrace your qualities and skills?
What if this is your chance at success and you throw it away out of fear and egotism?
Ask people for their help. Do not shy away from that. Do not be afraid of that. Do not let your ego stand in the way of that request for help or assistance.
If you really think about it, the whole of human society is built on this idea:
People ask each other’s help and they provide and exchange services. Think of everything you could gain if you were to simply do what’s always been on your mind.
People who are afraid of asking other people for their help are those who fundamentally shy away from having normal and healthy interactions with people who may be able to help them with their breakthrough.
Do not be someone who is afraid to speak their mind.
Do not be someone who is afraid of talking to other people or asking them for their help.
You might not be surprised to hear this, but your success may very well depend on how you contact other people and interact with them.
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Always read this text of notes because I can making important changes in this text like update names in the list and things to the growth and understanding of how we can improve our foundations and how this community was built until here.
I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, more and more upvotes each others and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: More and More Upvotes each others!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
Thanks All of You!!!!